About Happy

This article replaces one I had up some time ago entitled "Things to Do Every Day." I decided to rewrite it because . . . well . . . it was really cheesy, and I couldn't deny it. Granted, being happy is all about cheesiness sometimes, but it shouldn't be painful to think about.

Anyway, here is my new-and-improved reduced-cheese list of simple things to do when you're having a down day. I don't claim to be an expert on the subject, but a little happiness never hurt anyone.

Throw a penny into a fountain.

I realize not everyone has the luxury of having a fountain at their workplace or school, but it's almost reason enough to change jobs, and here's why: throwing coins in fountains is one of the most inexplicably stress-abating happiness-inducing activities I know of.

Have you ever stopped to wonder why kids always obsessively beg for pennies whenever they see a fountain? I think the answer is beyond explanation, but it's a truth that can't be denied.

Sit under a tree.

Sure there's a certain zen-like predictability about this one, but when sitting under a tree for long enough, the bad stuff seems to get less important.

Pet a dog.

This bit of advice is a little trickier than most, as not all dogs enjoyed being petted by complete strangers, nor are many dog owners particularly receptive to people walking up and touching their dog without invitation. However, trusting that you find a dog you know, or you approach things right, I shouldn't have to hear about your dog-related injuries.

Dogs are innately happy creatures. You can learn a lot from them.

Write something.

I don't pretend that everyone in the world is a Faulkner in the making. I do know that writing is a cathartic experience, if done right. How do I mean "right?" Write without purpose or goal. Write without intent for anyone to read it. Write while carefully avoiding the temptation of self-criticism.

You'll surprise yourself at what comes out of your head, even if you do throw it away at the end, anyway.